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Cougar Dating in Australia, Minus the Small Talk

Australians have never been precious about age gaps, and Aussie cougars are the proof. She's in her forties or fifties, she's confident in her own skin, and she'd much rather spend Friday night with a younger bloke who makes her laugh than with a man her own age who wants to talk about his knees. My Cougar Dates is cougar dating in Australia for exactly that: older women who like younger men, and the younger men who like them right back.

Nobody here needs talking round. Every woman has already said she wants a younger man. All you have to do is say g'day.

Why Aussie Cougars Don't Muck Around

Australian cougars have a reputation for being direct, and they've earned it. If she likes your photos, she'll tell you. If she wants a drink on Thursday, she'll name the place. If it isn't working, she'll say so nicely and move on, which saves everyone a lot of time.

She's also good fun. She's travelled, she's had a career, she's probably been married and she's definitely been to more barbecues than you. What she wants now is a younger man with good manners, a bit of cheek and the energy to keep up. Bring those and she'll do the rest.

Sydney Cougars or Melbourne Cougars?

It's the oldest argument in the country, so we may as well settle it.

Sydney cougars

live outdoors. They swim before work, walk the coastal track from Bondi to Coogee on a Saturday arvo and reckon the ferry home across the harbour is the best part of any date. Expect sunnies, a tan and a strong opinion about which beach is best.

Melbourne cougars

live in the laneways. She knows a bar behind an unmarked door in the CBD, wears black all year and dresses up properly for the footy finals and the Cup. Cougar dating in Melbourne means good wine, better conversation and a jacket, because the weather will change at least twice before dessert.

The honest answer? Both are worth the flight.

Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide and Everywhere Between

Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

Warm all year and relaxed about everything. A long lunch by the river is a perfectly good first date, and the coast is an hour down the road when she fancies a weekend.

Perth.

Sunsets over the Indian Ocean, and the Fremantle Doctor rolling in on summer afternoons to cool everything down, except her.

Adelaide.

Close to wine country and very good at long lunches. When the Fringe takes over the city from February into March, she's out most nights.

Hobart, Canberra, Darwin and the regions.

Smaller cities, but women who'll happily drive a couple of hours for the right date. Widen your search and see who's near you.

Picture this

A Saturday Arvo in Sydney

She suggested the coastal walk: Bondi to Coogee, with a swim at Bronte on the way. You'd been messaging for a week, and she'd told you to bring your swimmers. She's 46, fit from years of ocean swimming, and she beats you to the top of every set of stairs without breaking a sweat.

She swims out past the break and waits for you to follow. Afterwards there are cold drinks on a balcony over the beach, her hair still wet, her hand on your arm while she tells you about the divorce and why she's never been happier. By sunset she's suggesting you skip the bus and walk her home. It's further than she's letting on. You don't mind in the slightest.

The Australian Cougar Year

Summer, December to February.

Christmas lunch at the beach, New Year's Eve fireworks over the harbour and long hot evenings when nobody wants to go home early.

Autumn, March to May.

The heat eases off, the evenings get comfortable and it's the best time of year for a weekend in wine country.

Winter, June to August.

Vivid lights up Sydney from late May into June, and the rest of the country retreats to fireplaces and red wine. Perfect for getting to know someone properly.

Spring, September to November.

The AFL Grand Final on the last Saturday in September, then the Melbourne Cup on the first Tuesday in November, the race that stops the nation. Every cougar in Melbourne has a hat for it.

Choosing Between Cougar Dating Sites in Australia

Cougar dating sites in Australia get searched every day, and the choice comes down to one question: is everyone on it there for the same reason? Here, they are. The women joined because they like younger men; the men joined because they like older women. There's no explaining yourself, no awkward "so, how old are you?" moment and no wading through people after something else. Your messages stay private, the site works on your phone, and you can see cougars in Australia near you tonight.

What She Wants From a Younger Bloke

Manners.

Hold the door, ask questions, put your phone away.

A plan.

"Wanna catch up sometime?" isn't a plan. Thursday at seven is.

Confidence.

Not swagger. Just enough to say what you want.

Energy.

She's had a big week. She wants someone who can make the night bigger.

Discretion.

What happens on the date stays between the two of you.

If you're after a particular kind of woman, read about older Australian women who want a younger bloke, or about Aussie sugar mummies who run the show.

Aussie cougars are online right now, and they like younger blokes. Get your profile up and say g'day to the one nearest you.

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