Cougar Dating in NZ, Kiwi Style
Kiwi cougars don't make a fuss. She knows what she wants, she says it plainly and she'd much rather spend her weekend with a younger man who's good company than wait around for someone her own age to notice her. My Cougar Dates is cougar dating in NZ for exactly those women, and for the younger men who've always fancied an older woman.
It's a small country, so the women here are rarely more than a short drive away. Every one of them has already said she prefers younger men. All that's left is saying kia ora.
What Kiwi Cougars Are Like
Practical, outdoorsy and good fun. She'll suggest a walk before she suggests a bar. She's probably done her OE and come home with stories she'll only tell you after the second glass. She's straight-up about what she's after, she can't stand a bloke who's all talk, and she's far more adventurous than her sensible rain jacket suggests. She's comfortable with silence, quick with a joke and very clear about what she enjoys, in and out of the bedroom. If you can make her laugh and keep up on a hill, you're halfway there.
North Island, South Island
Auckland.
Wellington.
Tauranga and the Mount.
Christchurch and the South Island.
Picture this
A Day on Waiheke
She met you at the ferry terminal with two coffees and a plan. Forty minutes across the gulf, and Auckland is suddenly a long way behind you. She's 47, sunglasses on, linen shirt, and she's booked lunch at a vineyard with a view right down to the water.
Lunch turns into a bottle, the bottle turns into a swim at Onetangi, and the swim turns into her asking whether you really need to catch the last ferry back. There's a bach just up the hill, she says. It belongs to a friend, and the friend is away.
The Kiwi Cougar Year
Summer, December to February.
Autumn, March to May.
Winter, June to August.
Spring, September to November.
A Bit of Kiwi for Your First Date
If she says she's keen, she's interested. If she says "sweet as", you've done well. If she tells you the beach is heaps nicer at the other end, follow her. If she says "chur" when you hold the door, that's a thank you. And if she tells you to bring your togs and jandals, it's going to be a good day, and very possibly a good night.
What She Wants From a Younger Kiwi Bloke
Someone who turns up.
Someone who can laugh at himself.
Someone with energy.
Someone who keeps it quiet.
Cougar Dating Sites in NZ, Sorted
When you're comparing cougar dating sites in NZ, only one question really matters: does everyone on it want the same thing? Here they do. The women like younger men, the men like older women and nobody has to explain themselves. It's private, it works wherever you are, and you'll see Kiwi cougars near you, from Whangārei to Invercargill.
How to Date a Kiwi Cougar
Be on time, be yourself and don't oversell it: Kiwis can spot a show-off a mile away. Make a real plan. Ask about her life and listen to the answers. And keep things discreet, because in New Zealand everyone knows everyone, and her best friend's cousin probably knows your flatmate.
Looking for someone in particular? Read about older Kiwi women who like younger men, or about sugar mummies in NZ who do the choosing.
- Set up in a few minutes
- Kiwi cougars near you
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- Discreet all the way