Cougar Dating With a Genuine Kiwi Warmth
My Cougar Dates rests on one honest belief: a woman in her prime should be free to enjoy her love life her own way, without a single raised eyebrow. Across New Zealand, that belief has gathered a community that truly gets along.
What stands out straight away is the easy tone. People are kind, straightforward and simple to talk to. There is no swiping yourself silly and no reading between the lines, just adults sorting out a bit of fun together.
What Is a Cougar, Exactly?
A cougar is a woman who enjoys the company of younger men and feels no need to justify it. Many women find they become more confident and more honest about their wishes as they get older, and plenty of younger men find that self assurance genuinely appealing. The chemistry rather looks after itself.
What Mature Women Are Really After
Ask our female members and the answers are pleasingly down to earth. Most are not chasing posh dinners or an impressive job title. They want warmth, energy and someone who treats them well and keeps them smiling. Real attention beats a grand gesture every time.
Younger or Older, All Are Welcome
Some assume the men all have to be young. They do not. Members join from their twenties through to their fifties, because there are women of every age hoping to meet them. Respect is the only rule. If that suits you, create your free profile and see who takes your eye.